[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.ledeo.cz\/vychova-deti-aneb-jaka-slova-nepouzivat\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.ledeo.cz\/vychova-deti-aneb-jaka-slova-nepouzivat\/","headline":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed aneb, jak\u00e1 slova nepou\u017e\u00edvat","name":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed aneb, jak\u00e1 slova nepou\u017e\u00edvat","description":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed je pro n\u00e1s v podstat\u011b tabu. D\u011bti jsou tvrdohlav\u00e9, maj\u00ed svoji pravdu, cht\u011bj\u00ed si to ud\u011blat sami a po sv\u00e9m… Mnohdy se nejeden rodi\u010d neudr\u017e\u00ed a vztekne se \u00fapln\u011b stejn\u011b, jako to mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. A jak\u00e1 slova tedy d\u011btem ne\u0159\u00edkat? Ne, ned\u011blej to, nesm\u00ed\u0161, nech toho  Nejhor\u0161\u00ed, co m\u016f\u017eete ud\u011blat, je \u0159\u00edct d\u00edt\u011bti NE […]","datePublished":"2019-06-12","dateModified":"2023-05-07","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.ledeo.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.ledeo.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/baa231f7e1963b29d6549eb0e137b049d877d4e97c51386f463c7d4fc98329bd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/baa231f7e1963b29d6549eb0e137b049d877d4e97c51386f463c7d4fc98329bd?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"ledeo.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.ledeo.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a348430_w2936_t1563100943.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.ledeo.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a348430_w2936_t1563100943.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.ledeo.cz\/vychova-deti-aneb-jaka-slova-nepouzivat\/","about":["D\u011bti\r"],"wordCount":424,"articleBody":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed je pro n\u00e1s v podstat\u011b tabu. D\u011bti jsou tvrdohlav\u00e9, maj\u00ed svoji pravdu, cht\u011bj\u00ed si to ud\u011blat sami a po sv\u00e9m… Mnohdy se nejeden rodi\u010d neudr\u017e\u00ed a vztekne se \u00fapln\u011b stejn\u011b, jako to mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. A jak\u00e1 slova tedy d\u011btem ne\u0159\u00edkat?Ne, ned\u011blej to, nesm\u00ed\u0161, nech toho Nejhor\u0161\u00ed, co m\u016f\u017eete ud\u011blat, je \u0159\u00edct d\u00edt\u011bti NE a nevysv\u011btlit mu pro\u010d. D\u00edt\u011b toti\u017e sice c\u00edt\u00ed a sly\u0161\u00ed ten z\u00e1por ve va\u0161em hlase, ale nech\u00e1pe, pro\u010d danou v\u011bc nesm\u00ed d\u011blat. Bu\u010fte trp\u011bliv\u00ed a vysv\u011btlete d\u00edt\u011bti, pro\u010d nesm\u00ed danou v\u011bc d\u011blat. Jak se \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, zak\u00e1zan\u00e9 ovoce nejv\u00edce l\u00e1k\u00e1, nau\u010dte tedy d\u011bti fungovat bezpe\u010dn\u011b a pou\u017e\u00edvejte co nejm\u00e9n\u011b z\u00e1por\u016f.Nevztekej se, bu\u010f zticha, ne\u0159vi!Vztek a pl\u00e1\u010d jsou u d\u011bt\u00ed projevem emoc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 v sob\u011b maj\u00ed a kter\u00e9 je\u0161t\u011b neum\u00ed dostate\u010dn\u011b ventilovat jin\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem. T\u00edm \u017ee d\u00edt\u011bti „zak\u00e1\u017eete“ a budete tlumit jeho vztek, zad\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1te si akor\u00e1t na probl\u00e9m v budoucnu. D\u00edt\u011b v sob\u011b sice za\u010dne emoce tlumit, ale ty se stejn\u011b jednou n\u011bjak dostanou ven a bude to je\u0161t\u011b hor\u0161\u00ed. Pokud m\u00e1te doma mal\u00e9ho vzteklouna, nau\u010dte se, jak je efektivn\u011b uklidnit, nebo si prost\u011b na jeho z\u00e1chvaty vzteku a pl\u00e1\u010de mus\u00edte zvyknout. Zakazov\u00e1n\u00ed nem\u00e1 smysl – stejn\u011b nepom\u016f\u017ee. Vyhro\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed jakbysmet.Nebudu s tebou diskutovat Z\u00e1kladem ka\u017ed\u00e9ho vztahu je komunikace a dostatek respektu v komunikaci. T\u00edm \u017ee s d\u00edt\u011btem nebudete o ni\u010dem diskutovat, a budete mu akor\u00e1t porou\u010det a vnucovat mu svoji pravdu, pak dojdete akor\u00e1t k tomu, \u017ee bude d\u00edt\u011b o to v\u00edc na\u0161tvan\u00e9, proto\u017ee si nic nenech\u00e1te vysv\u011btlit. Pokud chcete, aby v\u00e1s va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b respektovalo, mus\u00edte nejd\u0159\u00edve respektovat vy jej a uk\u00e1zat mu tak kladn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edklad.V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed je n\u011bkdy o\u0159\u00ed\u0161ek a vychovat d\u011bti tak, aby z nich byli slu\u0161n\u00ed lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u0161ak maj\u00ed dostatek sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, aby se dok\u00e1zali prosadit je opravdu t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9. Postupem \u010dasu se v\u00e1m to ale ur\u010dit\u011b povede a budete se svoj\u00ed prac\u00ed ur\u010dit\u011b spokojeni.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.1\/5 - (18 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"V\u00fdchova d\u011bt\u00ed aneb, jak\u00e1 slova nepou\u017e\u00edvat","item":"https:\/\/www.ledeo.cz\/vychova-deti-aneb-jaka-slova-nepouzivat\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]